Why “No” Can Be the Safest Answer in Gymnastics and Cheer
- Shan Kel
- Sep 27
- 2 min read
When parents watch their child in gymnastics, tumbling, or cheer, it’s natural to get excited about their progress. Every cartwheel, handstand, or flip feels like a big step forward. But behind every new skill is a careful system of progressions — the building blocks that keep kids safe, confident, and ready for the next challenge.

Recently, the gymnastics world was shaken by heartbreaking news: Indonesian gymnast Naufal Takdir Al-Bari tragically passed away after a training injury. While this was at an elite level, it’s a sobering reminder of why safety, progressions, and sometimes even hearing the word “no” are essential parts of an athlete’s journey.
Progressions Build Strength and Confidence
Progressions aren’t about slowing your child down — they’re about setting them up for long-term success. Every forward roll, bridge, or cartwheel teaches the body balance, strength, and coordination needed for more advanced skills. Skipping steps may feel like saving time, but it leaves gaps that can cause injuries later.
At Spirit Technique, we remind parents: a safe gymnast is a confident gymnast. Mastering prerequisites means your child is strong enough, flexible enough, and mentally prepared to move forward.
Why “No” is Really a Yes to Safety
It can be hard for a child to hear “No, not yet.” But in our gym, a coach’s “no” isn’t rejection — it’s protection. It’s the coach saying, “I care about your safety more than rushing.” When a coach insists on prerequisites, they’re making sure every skill is earned, not gambled.
Think of it like school: you wouldn’t expect a student to do algebra without learning addition and subtraction. In the same way, you can’t throw a back handspring without first having a strong bridge, handstand, and cartwheel.
Protecting the Whole Athlete
Safety isn’t just about preventing physical injuries; it’s also about protecting a child’s confidence. When athletes are pushed into skills too soon, fear sets in — and fear can linger long after the moment has passed. By respecting progressions, athletes feel proud of each step and build the trust that keeps them growing.
Parents, You’re Part of the Process Too
We know it can be exciting to want your child to “hurry up” and learn the next big skill. But the best gift you can give them is patience. Trust the process. Trust the “no’s.” And know that every small step forward is building a stronger, safer, and more confident athlete.
Safety in Gymnastics Takeaway
The loss of a young gymnast overseas reminds us all of the importance of safety-first training. At Spirit Technique in Cordova, TN, our priority is to teach progressions with care, to say “no” when it keeps athletes safe, and to celebrate each earned “yes.” Because when safety comes first, success always follows.
Ready to give your child a safe, supportive start in gymnastics, tumbling or ninja? Book a 4-week trial today and see the Spirit Technique difference. Join today at www.joinspirit.net




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